Fear and Depression Spiral… I Can Keep Getting Better Anyway

I found a wonderful quote today on my Momentum Chrome add-on… “When you have exhausted all possibilities, remember this: you haven’t.” ~ Thomas Edison Ah, thank you universe. As is so often the case, the right message arrives when the student is ready. The past few days have been a powerful reminder about commitment, willingness, … Read more

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Patience Hell. I’m gonna kill something.

Planning and Strategy Only Matter If You Execute

It’s really easy to get trapped in a strategy loop.

Sometimes we just need a push onto the field. You may not feel ready but the simple truth is that you need to get onto the field or all that strategy is just intellectual exercises.

My own professional life encompassed theatre, dance, and sales. Each of these arenas requires a lot of work if you want to be really good.

As a dancer I trained every day to be sure that my body was ready. I rehearsed and rehearsed to be sure that I fully knew and could execute every lift and turn and jump and movement across the stage. It was a lot of fun and it was totally demanding. I tested my mind, my body, my emotions to their limits. But at the end of the day, it was about that performance in front of a full theatre of patrons which determined whether we were going to be paid.

Avoid the strategy loop

What you have to learn in sales is also immense. You have to be a prospector, a psychologist, a strategist, a diplomat. Sometimes, you’re even a marriage counselor.

And that’s just the people side.

You also have to know your product, its relative strengths and weaknesses. If you are selling, and you consider yourself a professional, then you have a LOT to manage. The more complex your sale – multiple decision makers/levels, highly competitive market, etc. – the more you have to think and act strategically.

Like the dancer, it has to happen out on the stage or it’s just an intellectual practice. Planning and strategizing might be nice and fun – even safe – but no payday.

Do your practice. Learn your lines. Know the plays, know the choreography. But to achieve mastery  you need to  GET OUT THERE AND PLAY!


Michael Stammer is a Sales | Life | Performance coach available for individual and group coaching and speaking to organizations. For more visit www.coachmichael.com

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A Gardener’s Mind

Today in a Facebook Gardening group a member lamented the wanton removal of years of her landscaping and garden work by the purchasers of her home:

“That moment you drive by your house you just sold a few weeks earlier and everything you ever planted and loved is ripped out and gone!!!”

Trees, picket fence, roses, arbor… all gone.

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Full or Fulfilled?

Hara hachi bu me” (eat until you are only 80% full)
~ Confucius

Several years ago I coached a very successful businessman (I’ll call him Robert) who shared a deeply telling comment from his wife.

“Just how much is enough, Robert?”

He had a great life, a fat bank account, a devoted family, extensive social circle, community respect, good health, and … never quite enough business. A classic American striver.

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